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advice

so me and my boyfriend have had sex twice. the first time we did it i don't think he broke/tore the hymen even though it hurt really bad, basically i kept pushing him off me on reflex. anyway, the second time was yesterday and it also hurt really bad but i still don't know if he tore the hymen, it still hurt and i understand it will hurt the first few times but how do i make sure he fully "popped my cherry"?(i got tired of using the words broke/tore)

virginity isnt only about popping cherries, if your boyfriend and you had sexual intercourse, than your not a virgin.


ADDITION:

if you need to see if your hymens still intact, you could try feeling around or you could check with a mirror.

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