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Q: okieodkes now....my best freind evers name is nick and hes totaly the best and i luv him to death. well lets just say hes not the most innacent one! and so his parents sent him for boot camp for 1 full year! i missed him so much, and when he came bak he looked diffrent, he wuz hot im not gunna lie, and he gradualy changed ( my freinds and my type of style is hardcore) and he got a mohalk when he came back and i piersed his lip for him XD but i always luved him (in a friend way) and hes the sweetest thing but i sudndly began to start likeing him and i keep saying to myself "wtf hes ur best bud ever how can you like your best friend??" i know he just thinks of me as a friend, and i dont wanna tell his so our freindship wont be thrown out the window, but i hate keeping things in, its stressing between all that going on in my life, im totaly streased wut do i do??

srry i typed alot I NEED HELP
thanx
ashley
Well, this happens a lot a lot in a relationship with the opposite sex. If it keeps up or gets stronger the best thing to do is just tell him and if things change than you have to cope with them it is better than living a lie and also you could try hanging around other guys and see if feeling start and if you can only thjink about him than its probably just going to be about him for a while I mean he's been your best friend and honestly that is how a lot of marriages happen by friends just becomming more because thats the only person they could really vccount on and thats what a relationship is aboout. Ots about loving someone and being their best friend sex and other stuff is just a bonus in that and maybe the more you hang out feeling will start to occurr for him and anything else you would like to know?
sorry it took so long for me to respond

thanx so much ill keep it in mind

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