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Last Update: December 20, 2007
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Ok. Well Im 14 and I'm a girl. My boyfriend is just a few years older than me. Me and him have gotten sexual, but we haven't had sex before. I don't want to have sex, but he's older and he would do it if i did. And that kind of puts pressure on me. He isn't making me have sex or purposly putting pressure on me. He is a really nice guy and has a very nice personality and I could so see myself with him years from now and we have been together for 6 months. We have touched eachother in certain places before and like the other night we took it a step further. He touched me between my legs bare but I let him. I always get caught up in the moment and I am afraid I will get caught up in the moment and end up doing something I will regret. I won't have sex till I have no doubts I want to be ready and my mom said that if i want to have sex she will put me on the pill. So I want to wait another year or so and then i will if I'm ready, but I'm afraid he exspects I will have sex with him even though he's told me many times it's will always be my choice and when I am ready he will be to! I am scared! What should I do?
Oh sorry if it was so long, but if you can could you please give me some advice? :) (link)
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Ok, this problem seems to come up alot with young adults. Before you do something stupid, think of the consequences. Aids,messing up your rep., or screwing up something internal.
be careful about who you let touch you and where. he may be very trustworthy, but if you feel uncomfortable don't do it.
i would wait till your married so that you don't have any guilty feelings that give you emotional stress. don't do it, you'll regret it. and your bf said there was no presure so don't feel anxious or edgy.
take care
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Hmmmm i need to think about that one haha umm yeah my reputation is already messed becuz of me goin out with him in the 1st place because hes older so I dont worry about that i don't care wat people think of me. It was really good advice though
:)
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