Member Since: December 31, 2006
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Last Update: December 31, 2006
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Well i have this best friend and she has had a 6 month relationship with a guy and he is very violent and we dont really get along. But me and my best friend used to spend alot of time together and tell each other everything, but since she has had her boyfriend everything has changed and i can never get a minute alone with her to talk properly or even just to have a joke. I dont mean to be selfsish but i just want to be like it used to and go shopping together and stuff but now she is always with her boyfriend and i dont really see her much. I dont no what to do because i miss her soo much. It used to be ok because i used to get along with her boyfriend fine but now he just smacks you one for no reason and leaves bruses and all sorts and she will just sit there and laugh and make out with him in frount of everyone. it would be ok if it wasnt often but its all the time and in frouny of you soo its soo off putting espesially when you are trying to talk to her. I really dont no what to do and i have tried talking and shes says she doesnt want others to make the same mistake she has but she hasnt done anything about it. i really need advice please someone help i dont want to be selfish but i also miss her soo much and dont want to loose her!! (link)
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its is not selfish at all that you miss your bestfriend.. SHES YOUR BEST FRIEND!!! its never fun to have your bestfriend taken away from you by some jackass. so, you need to tell her that you miss her. and if he steps in and distracts the subject, then you need to step up and say something, you're sick of not having a second with her, and something needs to be done about it. be assertive. and remember that you're not at all being selfish
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thank you am glad that av found someone that agrees with me and i think i will try and talk to her again!
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