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Hi, first off I am a girl in fact, and I just turned 16 2 weeks ago.
So now I have that out of the way, I will share my dilemma, mind you it may get bit long because once I start, sometimes I forget the story is getting long.
Well it all started about a month or two ago when I saw this guy, lets call him Bill.
I help out my mom watch this booth during weekends, and that's where I first met Bill.
I had noticed that new shop just came in across from my mom's shop and I had noticed it was this middle aged looking women and this really cute guy, which happened to be Bill.
I was so glad because he seemed like he was around my age and really cute. Because there used to be some weird old guy working there.
But me being very shy, I'm not shy at all in other situation because I can just go talk to random person off the street, except for when it comes to guys that I think is cute. So I couldn't bring myself to say hi, so all day I was just watching him, and it seemed like he was kind of watching me as well.
So almost at the end of the day, I asked my mom if I could go look at what he was selling, and she said I could so I went over there and we somehow started to talk and I found out that he is 16 years old as well. (although i was 15 then)
He was real friendly and nice and again, cute. Then we started to talk and talk more, and even though we don't really have much in common, we seem to talk to each other really well. For example, when I gave him my phone number, because my friend suggested I should, he told me me wasn't good at talking on the phone and I was glad because I wasn't neither.(and he gave me his number as well) But for some reason when we are talking on the phone, we seem to talk really well. There isn't any awkward silent moments. (He called me on Christmas and I just called him last night.)
Then the lady working in front of me told me that he kept looking at me even though there were these pretty girls over at his shop.
Also there was 2 little kids that came by for one weekend, and they kept telling me that he likes me but he's too shy to ask me out.
And as long as this story might be, I am not even half way telling, but I will stop now because I think I got my point acrossed.
So what do I do? tell him I like him? because I am not sure about anything.
Also he might be just really friendly type, and for the fact that he has lot of chick friends.
So please help me and thank you in advance! (link)
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Haha, I agree with the person who said good job on the no awkward silences thing...I'm not good at talking on the phone either, and I can't manage that one even with my best friend of eleven years.
My advice is to tell him how you feel, and see if he feels the same way. From what you've said, it seems like he does. And even if it turns out he doesn't, it's always better to know. Go for it--if you never say anything, you could miss out on the relationship of your life simply because you were too scared.
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Thanks so much! I think ill tell him tomorrow
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