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this is really long but interesting!! okay, i'm in 9th grade and he's in 11th. i know that there isnt a chance of us getting together..not much anyways but i can still really like him =P but anyways the things he does confuses me. like he puts his arms around me-in a nice way, hugs me when i don't expect it, has a nickname for me,says i'm pretty and cute sometimes, and stayed after with me twice even though he was going to get in trouble. once was when i was really sad (long story) and at lunch he noticed and even my bff didn't notice at all. so he waited for me way after lunch just to walk with me to class and made sure that i was okay with his arms around me. the other time was when he would've gotten in a lot of trouble. he's a drum major and our school's band takes everything so seriously. i'm in strings btw. but anyways, we had a little school concert for the middle schoolers and after that, he was suppose to go to the band room right away but he walked with me to strings class anyway..well almost there becuase the other drum major appeared in the hallway and in a really strict tone told him to get in the band room right then and there. all those things he did as i've mentioned above gave me a sense that he likes me butt...when the drum major appeared, he took his arm off of me immediately as if he was embarrassed to have his arm around a 9th grader? or maybe it was because he didn't want the drum major to think he ditched band for a girl. idon't know. and right before winter break, i asked for his number (in a friendly way. not a 'omg i luv you!' way) and he wrote i don't know. but they may have been because there was the jazz band playing 2ft away from where we were at lunch.
anywhos, does anyone have a pretty good guess about as to why he wrote "i don't know" and took his arm off of me right away? do you think he likes me? (link)
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Hmm.. my gut tells me that this guy either 1) just sees you as a "little sister" or 2) is a loser who can't get girls his own age so he flirts with girls 2 years younger than him to make himself feel better. I think both of these scenarios could fit in your story. If he only saw you as a little sister type friend, that would explain him not wanting to give you his phone number. Maybe he felt bad about leading you on and didn't want to lead you on any further by giving you his phone number? Orrrr .... on the other hand.... maybe he's embarrassed that he can't get a girl his age, and he would never be caught dead with a 9th grader in front of his friends, so he doesn't want you to have his phone number because he'd be embarrassed if somehow his friends found out. Either way you slice it, I don't think this guy is boyfriend material. He may like you, but if he does, I don't think you deserve a guy who' acts embarrassed to be seen with you by his friends.
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thanks =] i never thought of it that way but haha, thanks anyways =]
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