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hey, i think i need a bit of guidance, i just had my first heartbreak.
i know it will take time, i know what ive gotta do (girl nights, erase his number and so on) its not that part that worries me.. it's the actual letting go. what i mean is, that moment when i finally accept that it's over, nothing worth fighting for, the moment i stop thinking "maybe we'll meet one day in the future and end up together anyways" the moment i truly accept that he'll no longer be in my life.. yeah, that moment is the one i fear. It's going to hurt, so badly. I know that-- but what happen after that? after the days of crying, when you run out of tears,, what happens? caus this is seriously my FIRST heartbreak EVER, i dont know how these things work.. it's a weird sort of heartbreak too, like he didn't cheat, we didn't fight or anything.. he's still the perfect guy i fell for, the guy i love, it's just that i moved, to another country.. and if im lucky i'll see him once a year, but that's it. so it had to end, we were forced to end it. i know it was the right decision, but i dont know how to deal with it.. please help! (link)
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me and my first love broke up about 6 months ago IM the one who got rid of him, he begged for me back for about a month. but i didnt relize what i had lost. i loved him. and i let him go over somthing stupid, but thats not the point. Ill tell you what i went through, i cant exactically tell you what to do because honstly the only thing that mends a broken heart is time. Onwards;; 6 months down the line i still love him, i know i do, we dont talk anymore for various reasons but i always think about him. when i wake up he is the first thing that comes to my mind. When i listen to a song i think of him. 6 months down the line and us girls still arent over it, it sucks, and you will cry, and you will hurt, and you will feel really shitty. But you cant just stop there because it is the FIRST heartbreak NOT the last, cuz trust me theres mostlikely going to be plenty more.. so all you can do is give it time and a true first love never dies and you will never forget him or get over him, thats whats so great about a first love.
best of luck to you.
i send chocolate along your way! =]
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awww! you're awesome! thanks! it's great to know i have your support!
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