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Member Since: December 6, 2006
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Last Update: December 6, 2006
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Okay, let's call him John.

This guy confuses me a lot!! Okay, so basically I met him this school year and we're friends but not the best of ones. He's a grade higher than I am but he's so likable!! All the girls drool over him and I'm afraid to say that I am one of them. But anyways

At the beginning of the year, there were two major times where we flirted nonstop and everyone was saying that he was all over me at a school thing. And at lunch he'd talk to me and look at me.

Now that there aren't any school event where I can hang out with him, I don't think he likes me anymore? I don't know. Before I got a strong feeling that he liked me but now I'm just confused. We haven't had much chance to talk to each other ...lunch maybe but he often debates with the other guys on politics..yeah I know nerdy..but cute.

When I was losing all hope, he said "You look depressed today,,usually when you're mad you look cute but you look depressed." or something like that and I was like..okay? Haha and when I asked for a hug he gave me one but today he only gave me a pat on the back...he said he thinks hes getting sick and doesnt want to get me sick...do you think that that is the real reason?


Anyways, does this guy like me or is his crush on me kinda over? Please tell me the truth even if it's brutal. I won't give anyone 1's..unless it didn't hlep me at all (link)
Sometimes a guy is confused about his own feelings. If your friends know some of his friends, get them to see if he actually likes anybody, but just tell them to say "Does 'John' like anybody?" I was in the same situation once, but relax, if the guy doesn't like you, it's his loss, because each and every one of us is unique, and I know there will be other fish in the sea (too cliched, I know). But, if he does like you, then take a chance, and maybe ask him out (21st century, u don't need boys to ask you). See if he's available sometime during the week, and get some of your friends to maybe go to a movie or something, like a group hang out and sit near him. See if he reacts, if he doesn't , then he's either too shy, or he just doesn't like you. If he does, then if you're seeing a comedy, lightly tap his arm when you're laughing, or if you're seeing a horror movie (we know those are the best for physical contact:) keep your arm on the seat, and tell him if you're scared.


Rating: 5
He's not shy..at all and he doesn't like scary movies which is a..erm. hmm. i don't know but haha thanks




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