Hello everyone! My name is Lisa, I'm 15. I'm a freshman and I go to public school. I love to sing, read, watch tv, and I'm a big fan of Harry Potter. Most of my freinds come to me for advice because they know that they can depend on me and just because I am young does not mean I cant answer questions from older people who seek advice so please ask away!
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sorry if it's a little long, but i'm freaking out
ok so the other day me and my bf were supposed to go on a date *it was our 3month*, but he didn't pick me up...instead he called me from where he was and was like "yeah i'm here" so i'm thinking "ok am i supposed to drive MYSELF to my own date? whats next...i pay too? i mean come on" so i was going to *though i wasn't too happy* and my family and friends were mad that he was to lazy to come get me. so my older, very strong brother *who my bf is intimidated by* called him up and basically told him he needs to treat me right and that since i'm his gf he should have the courtesy to pick me up and that if he treats me like garbage, there's gunna be a problem. and i was upset at both him and my brother and since then, my bf hasn't called or tried to get in contact with me. i've texted him but he's been short with me or just doesn't respond and i called him today and he was with his best friend so i said "ok well do you wanna call me back when you get home" and he was like "yeah i guess?" which just about made me cry *i've been all emotional this weekend*. is my bf really that mad at ME even though it was something HE did...or rather DIDN'T do?? does he just need time to cool off? i'm determined to not let something so stupid break us up, but idk if he'll realize how dumb this is and will just end things. i feel stupid for asking this, but i really care about him and don't want to lose him over something so small, and i really need some advice. (link)
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Dear Confused,
I really think that he just needs sometime to cool off and also, I know that your brother is trying to protect you but really, tell him to bug off. I'm going to be honest with you, if I had a boyfriend and he didnt pick me up for our three month, I'd be fuming furious. I do think that your brother is right for telling him off and telling him that he needs to treat you right, because he does! You seem very nice and you should be treated with respect. If he isnt willing to spare some gas for you, you need to tell him to get his proitories straight. I really think that you should talk to him and let him blow off some steam. You seem really stressed out, I suggest a nice bubble bath with aromatherapy candles. That should help! :) I hope I helped and I hope everything goes well. Good Luck! Let me know how things turn out.
Sincerly,
Lisa xox
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lol thanks. i just don't know what to do =[
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