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ok well my friend max is an athiest. he doesnt belive in any kind of god. hes like a science nerd so that probably has something to do with it. well i really want him to belive in God but i dont know how i can talk to him about it. we arent close enough to talk about that stuff. what should i do?

Dear Friend,

Your concern I understand is because you care about your friend. You also have to understand that his beliefs have nothing to do with you or your friendship or your beliefs. To be a true friend is to honor him and let him discover his truth. You don't have to agree with them but you can still honor your friendship with him. If he seeks answers, he will ask you...but if he does not, then you should remain a friend and not be consumed by changing his way of thinking or making him see things the way you do. One thing I think many people do in regards to beliefs and religion, is that they put their own ego involvement in regards to another's belief system...when in fact we should be accepting and stay true on our own path. If you are meant to guide him...the opportunity will be offered to you by him...the situation should never be forced. Respect and Honor your friend by learning acceptance, just as he should for you.
"Science without religion is lame. Religion without science is blind." ~Albert Einstein
I tend to agree with Einstein although I substitute Spirituality in place of religion, but I think you get the point.

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(Rating: 5) good answer. thanks!!
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