Hey, my name's Jessica and I'm 19 years old. I have been through all that teenager stuff, with the boyfriends,homework, stress, etc. I have watched over this site but said Hey, why not start giving out advice? (P.S, I'm the girl on the left of the photo)
Well I have three dogs and two cats. I have two older sisters and a younger brother. I go to College now, and it's going great
I have a boyfriend named Alex. He is the sweetest guy ever! We have been dating for 7 years and he is the best!
So any question you ask will be answered so ask away!
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I want my best friends boyfriend. . . *SOB* at first we started out as just really good friends and we would play around. Innocently. We would be around my Best Friend of 11 years and cute little flirt around. He would jokingly hug me in front of her and play pucker up and tell me he loves me cuz she's mean. And we all would laugh and joke about it. Then, we started getting a bit closer, when he would play, he would mess around and get closer than we both know she would like, if she even noticed. She never does. That was fine but it's getting worse, way worse, and I DON"T KNOW WHAT TO DO! Because, I don't really want him to stop, but I need him too. Kinda.. . . And he skips steps, we nevcer kiss, but we have gotten close and I run away, but I WANT IT! even though i can't, & i know I can't. . . and I won't. But instead of kissing he's cut straight to, um. . . The rest of the stuff. Not "" you know, but he's been down and up a couple of times, ALWAYS in a crowd, and he gets a kick outta doing it infront of her. . . It nearly kills me, everytime, but there is a sort of satisfying adrenaline (Sorry About My Spelling)
I hate him. . .
I'm new to this site and don't know how this really works. Sorry if I annoy you. . . lol
~Katie (link)
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Welcome to the site!
Okay so let me tell you now, no matter what if you want to keep this friend, don't become anything more than friends. Once I had two friends, let's call them Sam and Angie (they we're really good friends). Angie had a boyfriend named Bob, Sam liked bob and they went behind her back to go out. Not sam and angie are not friends.
Although you might like him, he is your friends boyfriend and if you do go behind her back or get closer, you might ruin a friendship. I doubt that's the last thing you want to do.
Are you sure he really likes you? Maybe he is just doing it to joke around, but he might be serious. First talk to him and tell him what your thinking. Tell him that your afraid this might go too far and you don't want to ruin a friendship.
A quote someone once said from a song is "Love may not last forever, but friendship never ends." I hope this adivce helped in some way.
If you need more help, about the site, real life issues etc. just write another question.
-HollywoodHelper1338
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