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This is a very long story so I will shorten it as much as possible.
I had a 'best' friend for a long time but she was VERY co-dependent. She was also not a very good friend to me. Always expected me to be there for her but was never there for me, tried to steal my boyfriend, flirted outrageously with him right in front of me, was horrible to my sister and so on. The final straw was when she did something WAY out of line earlier this year (details of which I won't go into) and I told her I wanted nothing more to do with her.
That was in March and, horrible though this may sound, although I missed having a friend I haven't missed her as a person at all. Now, she's e-mailed me saying she wants to be friends again and wants me to e-mail back. I can't just not reply but I don't want to open the lines of communication up because I really don't want to ever see or hear from her again. That being said, she was kind of suicidal for a time and I just don't know what to do.
So please, any suggestions on how to respond firmly but without saying I want to be friends would be appreciated. I know it probably sounds like I'm being a bitch but believe me, there are good reasons. (link)
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I know its hard,but after a while you'll feel better even though she was your friend a long time.She doesn't deserve a friend like you.You should tell her your being a bitch!And if you keep acting that way you won't have anyone to have your back.And tell her how you feel and all the damage she did after that she'll be crying so you can forgive her.Whatever you do don't forgive her,she needs to change first to have your friendship.While shes recovering and changing her attitde you should go out and make other friends that are honest and better then this so called friend.
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Thanks but that's far too confrontational for me and I don't think the best advice to give someone is to deliberately make them cry. That's not what I want and I won't forgive her just becuse she cries. It goes deeper than that. Thank you for trying though.
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