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i just thought id let you know that i found out that B was talking about me to my boyfriends best friend who i am very good friends with. she told him even more lies about me. what should i do?

I know I suggested calling her bluff in front of everyone. But, after careful deliberation with me, myself and I, we think that the best thing to do is just ignore her!! Have everyone ignore her! Asking her to prove it may just feed her fire, not to mention pull you into her web. Nope forget what I said about that.

The most important thing to remember is to keep being honest with yourself and everyone around you. The more honest you are with everyone around you, the more obvious her lies will be.

Do not waste your time worrying about what she is trying to do. She is digging herself a hole, you will see. Karma is the mother of all punishers.

If your friends and boyfriend fall for her games they will soon learn what she really is. If this happens, the only thing you can do is forgive them when they come to you realizing the error of their ways. Do not get caught up in her web of lies. It will ruin you. Just keep your head up high and do not let her ruffle your feathers.

I know it will be hard. Most liars are convincing and practice a lot. Stick to your morals. Stay honest, insist that you really do not care about what she says because it is all lies. Do not dwell on her. Just spend more time with your friends in non public places. This will increase the bond you have with them and make it harder for her to invade your world.

In your life, there are going to be people like this B person. Some of them are very good at what they do and you would never know they were that kind of person. The only thing you can do is not sign up for that drama class.

Just keep telling your friends you are not signing up for that class. When they as you what class, tell them, "I am not signing up for her drama class. Lying is immoral and wrong."

Some large corporations use the same tactic she is using. To beat the competition they throw out little bits of information about the competetors product.(in her case it is lies about you). This is to create confusion with the current consumers. Causing some of the consumers to change brand names. (most see that switching was a bad idea and change back) While it also causes loyal consumers to remain faithful.

Her lies are scare tactics to confuse you and your peers just enough to rattle your cage and maybe steal a few friends. The truth is, if she could make her own friends she wouldn't need to steal yours. But, what can you do. Feel sorry for her. She has to lie to get people to notice her. Do not sign up for that class!!!

Stay Honest, Stay True and your friends will see the truth. Keep me posted!! Have a smile :)

To your feedback
Someitmes knowing is harder that not knowing. I understand not wanting to know. What makes you think he cheated on you? Have you asked him if he has cheated? If so, do you believe him?

My best advice to you is just to keep your head up and focus on you. You have probably heard this a million times, but here goes. Men will come and men will go. They are a dime a dozen. The good ones are few and far between. I was with my x husband for 7 years, he cheated. I caught him on the phone with her. They were telling each other that they had a great time together and couldn't wait til she came out to visit him. She was telling him that she loved him and missed him. She also hoped he wouldn't get into trouble with his wife, at that point I spoke up so they both knew I was evesdropping. I left my husband that very afternoon. We are no longer together. That was 6 years ago. Best thing I ever did. My shortest relationship was 1 year and 8 months. I have had some good relationships. I have had some bad relationships. You can never tell about a person unless you live them for a while.

If your boyfriend has cheated on you , he is not worth your effort. You should learn this lesson and move on. A part of growing up is learning lessons that are taught to you by the greatest teacher of all; LIFE. Life has taught me more valuable lessons than any, book, class or lecture. One of the lessons we learn is that love hurts. Another lesson we learn is that not everyone is honest and trustworthy. The only thing you can do is keep your eyes open to the signs. Life throws those out there too. We normally do not pay attention to them. Most of us are too busy worrying about other things.

On the other, keep your eye out for trickery, but remain truthful. I am not around him to tell you if he is lying or not, but some of the signs can be found here :

www.blifaloo.com/info/lies.php


Just keep to your morals, get good grades and learn about financial literacy. Schools teach you how to do a lot of things to survive in the real world. Financial literacy is not one of them. Most of our population works for money because they are not taught how to make money. It is left up to the parents to do that. Mine never did, and It has taken me to the age of 32 to realize that I lacked the one skill needed to survive, how to bring money into the house. If your parents have not taught you financial literacy yet, you better ask them to.

If they cannot answer or tell you that you have to work a job to make money, then you should read 'Rich Dad Poor Dad" by Robert kiyasaki.

Stay in touch OK!!

Tammy-hnstymtrs


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(Rating: 5) thanks you advice has helped me alot. im still not sure about what i should do .. im not sure if my boyfriend cheated on me or not and i dont know if im ready to know the truth..
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