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Q: my boyfriends in jail and we don't know when he'll get out yet it could be anytime from this week til january.i miss him and he got arrested halloween night. lately he's been telling me he expects me to cheat on him although i won't but he expects me to since i'm in the real world and he's in jail. and i told him i won't and i really won't and we don't love eachother. but lately i feel like he doesn't wanna be with me ut im scared to bring it up while we're talking on the phone. i aslso don't know how to bring i up. i need some help with how to start the subject please.
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I went through the EXACT same thing. My ex boyfriend got locked up back in March and it was a strain on our relationship considering I already wanted to end it with him and he felt like shit when I said I didnt want to be with him when he was in jail because he thought it was for that very reason, which it wasnt. Basically, just say to him "How are things with us" He will then respond good/bad. Then proceed to ask him "Ill hang in there with this relationship if you want me to.. if you dont want me to continue dating you then tell me" Make sure he knows that youre serious about staying with him and ask if he feels its necessary or if his feelings have changed. That should be all thats needed to be said. Most likely he still wants to be with you. Hes just probably down about being in jail. The guy I'm in love with now, realized he loved me when he was locked up, becuase he was able to be away from me and it showed him how much he missed me and cared about me and wanted to do better for me. Sad to say but jail is a good learning experiance and it really helps sort out feelings. Good luck, and I'm sure everyting will work out for the best :)
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