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I was always against abortion. I am 16 years old and pregnant. I have a boyfriend for 5 monghs now and we never had sex. The problem is that on a night out with a friend of mine "girl" I got raped. Somebody must have sleeped me that ruffy cause I do not remember anything and woke up the next day feeling like my head is going to explode. That happen over 45 days ago.
My parents now, we told them its my boyfriends and it is my fault cuase my parents have been through a lot and I really dont want them to know. I consider myself mature enough to battle with my own problems and mistakes. I consider it to be my fault since I was not carefull enough. Plus, them knowing would change a lot.
I definately do not want to keep that baby, I definately am not ready to become a mother especially on such an occasion and already too many people know. My parents want me to keep it even though we are not wealthy at all.
I know that after 3 months you can now longer have an abortion so I am running out of time. How do I convince my parents to let me do it? And...if they dont allow me to, I ll do it myself. What could change then? How will I be able to make them, accept my choice. My boyfriend has been really understanding with the hole situation and really helpfull. He is the one willing to give the money for such an...act.
I am ready to do anything it takes not to have that baby, If I have to punch myself in the stomach, I ll do it.
People from my church also know. They will never take me back after such a thing. My boyfriend sais he could move far away with me were we will work and go to school at the same time. (link)
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I can see your dilemma.
In the case of a rape, I'm sure your parents and church would understand, or at the very least would be more supportive. You have to tell them. I sincerely doubt they would blame you for such a terrible thing happening to you.
Have you considered adoption? I know it must be very difficult for you, but it is another option. You aren't ready to be a mother yet, you said. But maybe someone else is, who can take care of this baby. It might be a good option to reconcile the situation with your church and your parents.
But either way, it is ultimately your decision.
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thank you very much but not really helpfull and very stereotypical.If you want me you can ask me to change the rating though. Thanks anyways. [Rating changed by MSH: 1 to 5]
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