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I consider myself to be a "normal" teenage girl. There really isn't anything outrageous that separates me from others so I consider myself to be painfully average. I can say that I do have a level head and I find it easier to give out advice than to come up with advice for myself. Hopefully I'll end up helping someone.

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There's this boy that I used to go out with, but broke up with him because I didn't like him like he liked me. But I happen to know that he still has feelings for me. Previously when I was talking to him and another one of my friends, he said he was tired of getting his heart broken, which really made me feel bad for breaking up with him. Now, there's this other boy who likes me, and asked me out. I turned him down because I didn't like him, and know he just keeps staring at me...which is really creepy. And now there is this other boy who likes me, but my ex doesn't know about, and I talk to him on a regular basis. And my friends keep telling me that he said that he wants to go out with me. I don't know if I should say yes because I don't want to hurt me ex-boyfriend's feelings again. If you can help me out, thank you so much!!! ~*Stephanie*~

Getting hurt is part of growing up. Eventually he'll have to learn that things can't stay the same forever, especially not based on feelings. Do what feels right for you and what is good for you. Your ex will move on in time, and it may help for him to realize that it's really over between you two.

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