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Okay, I know this question is so trite and overly questioned but one more won't hurt, will it?
Anywhos, there's this guy...he's a grade level higher than me but I like him so much. I don't have any classes with him but we both take IBP and yes that amounts to something although it may sound like nothing.
I think he likes me...I don't know...pretty sure he does. I really really like him and I want to do all these things with him that I never really thought of doing before. He's so sweet, nice, funny, athletic, smart, cute, everything
He surfs, is in the school play, in boy scouts, plays guitar, is smart, he's so funny and nice to talk to and everything. Now he's not a nerd or anything, trust me. He's far from that.
I guess what I'm asking is...how do I get this guy before someone else gets him? I don't like direct confrontation as in I'm not going to go up to him or anyone else and ask "Who do you like? Wanna go out? I like you etc. etc."
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Chances are you have friends that are friends with his friends or some such other connection. If so, try to get your friends that are his friends to put in a good word for you.
If that's not a possibly, there's a lot of different ways. If he has a myspace, leave a comment. Get his screen name and start talking to him online. I'm more of a face-to-face kinda guy myself so I don't usually go about things that way, but some friends of mine have been very successful using computer-related approaches. Personally, I suggest that you suck it up and talk to him. A girl that goes out of her way to get my attention usually does. Don't come on too strong at first, but (through flirtation or some other such thing) make it clear that you're interested. Sounds like a pretty cool kid. You don't want to sit around too long and risk him getting away.
Good luck!
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