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16/F
So.. I havent ever had a boyfriend.
Ever, never been kissed.
I just really want a boyfriend.
I know everyone says, eventually I will find someone, and that I'm young.
Because there are a TON of people that have boyfriends and girlfriends at my age.
I've just been thinking, what is wrong with me?
I look decent, I care about people, I'm creative and artsy. Why cant I find someone?
Is it because my standards are too high?
I dont want to make them too low.
Has anyone ever felt like this?
And - I am quite happy.
I dont need a guy to make me happy,
its never healthy to need,
but to want is another thing.
So whats up?
[thoughtful answers please,
not stubborn arrogant cocky ones.] (link)
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I'm glad that you're happy with yourself and you don't need a guy to make you happy. That's what is most important because guys come and go but you live with yourself forever.
Just keep being yourself and keep it confident. It's proven that the majority of people are attracted to confidence in their partner.
Anyway, just keep going to a lot of social events where you can meet new boys. If the boys around you aren't cutting it, don't try to make it work with them. Meet new ones! If you like music, go to shows. That's a great way to meet people. Go to as many parties and get togethers as possible. Ask your friends to introduce you to new friends, you don't even have to tell them that your intentions are to find a boy.
Just keep loving yourself and you're sure to find someone soon.
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