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I consider myself to be a "normal" teenage girl. There really isn't anything outrageous that separates me from others so I consider myself to be painfully average. I can say that I do have a level head and I find it easier to give out advice than to come up with advice for myself. Hopefully I'll end up helping someone.

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ok so i like this guy, lets call him frank. and so frank has been my friend for like ever and gives hints about liking me, but apparently he doesnt, but just flirts with me to see if i like him just so he can feel like superior or whatever i dont quite get it..its dumb but true. so i told like my best like *guy friend* who i tell everything to, lets call him arnold ha. so arnold is all like no dont like him an dim like why whats wrong with him? and hes making up all these excuses that make no sence and im all confused. then im like why dont you want me to like frank! and he goes, because i like you, and signs off. i dotn know what to do! i dont want it to be all akward around arnold! and what about frank? please help! any advice/opinions work

If "Arnold" is just a friend and nothing more, make it clear to him. Honesty is the best policy especially with friendship and doing anything but be honest would be more harmful than admitting your feelings [or lack of feelings] to him. With "Frank" I can't help much. Sometimes you can't help who you like even if they don't share the same feelings toward you. All I can say is that if he's not going to return any feelings then he isn't worth your time. Everyone loves flirting and the feeling attached with a crush but don't let that feeling get too far. Trust me, it only ends up hurting.

Good luck with things. Hopefully it'll all turn out all right.

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(Rating: 5) thanks so much it really helped
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