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Hello, im 15 and just started a new school. I got split up from my friends i've been with for a long time, and its tough findign you way through a new place. My good friend is in lots of danger. she has had multiple relationships in the last while, and has changed completely. she talks about drugs, and sex. some people choose to have sex young, but I dont think my friend is making the right choices. she barely talks to me anymore, and shes the kind of person that will end up pregnant or addicted to drugs because she is soo stubborn and always fails to see the danger in situations like these. I tried talking to her but I knwo shes just lying to me...what do I do? (link)
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3 things for you to understand:
1. your friend is a big gurl- regardless of wether you want to acknowledge that or not. i understand you just want to look out for her, but let her emake her own decisions good or bad.
2. how dare you say that she will end up pregnant or addicted to drugs becuase shes stubborn!!!! wat a friends you are- you sound more like her mother than her friend on this one. i think that if she knew you said that about her that would be the ened of things between you , so why would you risk something like that?- i think that is very rude of you to make such an assumption.
3. wether she realizes shes making bad decisions or not, she WILL do what she wants- regardless of how you feel about it. just give her her space, and let her be for now. thats all you can do without making things worse.
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holy thats the worst advice i've ever gotten. you dont know my friend...she is hangin out wiht people who have done things I can't say, and her brother is lie on the verge of going into rehab..it's all around her, i've spoken to her about it and i've said those things to her. Im a good friend for worrying about her.........she spent some years of her life sick and shes totally lost respect for life..she could die...ppl drive her around without lisences. thanks for making me feel so good...:(
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