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Q: Today i got my senior picture proofs back and i emailed the ones i liked to my grandma. She looked at them and told my mom that i should of worn nicer shirts that showed more clevage and that i should of worn more make-up.

My cousn is the same age as me and shes getting senior pictures but her are going to be Glamour shots.

My grandma told me that i should of gotten glamour shots because they do the make-up for you.

I dont wear alot of make-up because i believe people dont need to wear it. Im nothing like my cousin shes really slutty and wears enough makeup for 10 people.

How do i tell my grandma that im not my cousin.
it hurts how she doesnt like any of my pictures.

thank you
hey there!

if your grandma brings it up again then just tell her straight out that you dont like being compared to your cousin because your being yourself. i know that she's your grandma but its not about her liking your pictures because its your pictures and you should love your pictures.
i have the same problem with my grandma she wants me to be just like my cousins but they are in college and im in high school. i dont want to be like them because they are really different from me. i just love the way i am and no one can tell you who you are or what you should do. hope this helps!

-manda

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Hey everyone! So I've been away from this website for a few years and I've recently stumbled upon it again. I feel that I'm more experienced to give mo and better advice. I've grown and developed so much these past few years that I have a completely different mentality from when I first found this site. 

Enough about that, well it's nice to meet you all and my name is Amanda! I hope to really help by giving the best advice I can. I'll always be free and open to help anyone out so don't hesitate :)

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