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Q: I'm going into 9th and Kevin is going into 10th. He and I used to date last summer[I was going into 8th grade and Kevin into 9th grade] but we decided to break it off [since we won't be able to see each other[he would be in high school and I would be in middle] and my mom is overprotective like woah].

Now that I'm gonna be going into high school and I'd probably see Kevin around, he's been trying to get together with me--a lot--over the summer. [Wanting to come over my house, hang out with him at his, join this club that he's in, come to his work, go to the movies, etc.]And he just IMed me from 10 30 -11 30 at night while I was away 288 times for an hour ._0 And me and his/my friends thinks he wants to go out with me again.

The questions is, should I go out with him or not. I mean he's nice, funny, athletic, and smart. But he's also sometimes perverted like woah(I know that dudes being perverted is normal but him, it's like above normal), disgusting, and he and his friends do this whole thing where they do other people's homework and projects for money =/.

hey there!

first do you still like him? do you just care for him as a friend or more? do you think about him a lot? do you flirt with him just because you can or because you want to get back with him?

try thinking about the reasons as to why you went out with him before. dont let your friends and his friends pressure you to go back with him. no one can tell you you should go out with him or not. its your decision and its your life.

entering high school is a bit different because you'll be meeting new people and its a good experience to meet new people but its still good to have your old friends. you can work on your friendship with him to grow stronger. if you really like him then its your decision if not then dont even bother and let him know.

hope this helps!

-manda

thx very much =D

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ItzMzManda
Hey everyone! So I've been away from this website for a few years and I've recently stumbled upon it again. I feel that I'm more experienced to give mo and better advice. I've grown and developed so much these past few years that I have a completely different mentality from when I first found this site. 

Enough about that, well it's nice to meet you all and my name is Amanda! I hope to really help by giving the best advice I can. I'll always be free and open to help anyone out so don't hesitate :)

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