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Q: hi guys im sorry if this is long but i dont no what to do anymore
this might sound like a high school fling thing but i went out with this guy for almost a year and then we broke up and now hes moved on so quickly and has another gf and i havent moved on at all i still like him but we both agreed to be friends but i cant stand talking to him because it hurts so much he doesnt understand that everytime i talk to him i think of what we had so should i not talk to him and let it go because i tried that and he says that if i dont want to talk to him now i should forget about him altogether or should i just try and be friends and get over my hurt that way? we both loved each other so much and i pushed him away and he got scared and left i try thinking of how bad he treated me sometimes but all i think of is all the really fun things we did together i dont know what to do maybe i just want someone there for me? i dont no please help

I can understand how your hurting. And its very hard to change the way your feeling. You just need to be strong. Just think about how easily it took him to move on! Obviously, you care for him more than he cares for you. You just need to be stronger and be more confident and positive with yourself. Its normal for you to miss him, and feel for him still. But you need to ask yourself were you 100& happy? Im sure you are a pretty lovely girl, and i bet you feel a bit rejected by him as well. The only advice i can give you is to BE STRONG and move on. Is he worth your pain?