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so...my name is Rebecca and I'm 17, going to be a senior in high school . i am currently at either the 2nd or 3rd spot in my class academically, but plan to graduate as valedictorian...so if you have a problem academically I'd love to help! i want to be a journalist (and kind of am), which means i may be a little harsh, but i do have a not-so-sharp edge (don't get me wrong, i can be sassy, I'd just rather smile :) ) . I love knowing that i can help someone and I'm actually of use to someone. When i was younger i was more shy, and all people knew about me was that i was a good friend and for the people i answer...i hope you think so too!

Also, God is big in my life. Like my whole life. And for anything I help you with...I give Him all the glory. It's all about Him and what He's given us. :)
E-mail: nellybly22@gmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Santa Fe, NM
Occupation: freelance journalism...kind of
Age: 16
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I have a best friend,
and we've been friends for a few years now,
but I'm really getting annoyed with her.

She always wants to hang out and its really frustrating to me to have someone constantly need me, I have other friends, unlike her.
She uses that as an excuse to make me hang out with her too.

What do I do?
I've already tried explaning to her
how I feel about it too.
But really shes getting on my nervous.


16/F (link)
i'm sorry if this first part doesn't really help but you should make some time for her (keep reading) just not all of it. if you ahve more friends try introducing some of them to her.if you know something she likes to do find some group that does it (ex.basketball team, drama club, etc.) and suggest she try for it (try out, audition). mention someone in your class that sounds cool that you don't really know that well and suggest she go over and talk to them. really she just needs to make friends, but she needs to do it on her own. don't be annoyed at her clinging to you, help her meet new people. like i siad she really just needs someons to hang with, everyone does. no one likes to be alolne.


Rating: 5
Truth me told I've tried introducing her to new people, and even telling her to make new friends,
but she refuses, she even has said she is "too lazy to meet new people"
and she constantly trys to act like me.
But thanks for your help.




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