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sorry if this is long..
to start things off im 15/F..
my best friend and i have been friends since the 5th grade.(and by best friends, i mean you COULD NOT seperate us!) then towards the end of my 8th grade year i moved about 45 minutes away. we still kept in touch by phone calls and we always hung out. but this past summer was hard for me to get out places. i always had things to do, or i already made previous plans with people. and now i think that shes uber mad at me because i cant do anything. she says: "you said we would hang out over the summer.. and you go and make other plans" the thing is, ive had these plans since the end of the school year, its not like i can ignore them. and i really dont want to lose her as a friend, but now im not even in her profile, and its because i couldnt hang out.. when one of us can drive.. things will be different, because then we dont have to worry about getting rides places, but im wondering(AND HOPING!) that our friendship will last that long.. what can i do to explain to her that im not ignoring her or anything? and ive already tried to just tell her straight out. it doesnt work! any advice will be appreciated! (link)
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hey! you two are so close i thought that your friend would have understood that you have other plans possible with other people as you obviously will have more then just her as a friend you need to let her know how much you dont want to lose her friendship tho and that you are closest to her and you could possibly try and include her in some of your plans if they are just with other friends as the more the merryer!!! but if not you need to tell her that you cant just bail out on other things just to hang out with her she should understantd if you two are as close as it sounds if you dont know how to put it into words invite her round to your hose nad show her this!!! meaning you question and repplies you get then she will understand how much your friendship means to you adn that you dont mean to hurt her feelings!! if you did show her this it sort of explains it self!! then you can work round you plans to fit time in for you tow to hang out
hope i helped!!!
good luck sorry its so long xx
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thanks.. hopefully when i do that.. she'll understand!
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