Well, I'm a second year college student. I have had my share of embarrassing moments, troubling times and I'm not the girl who got all the guys--so at least you'll know my advice is sincere and relatable, not perfect in an imaginary world. Any questions whatsoever are welcome, I'll try my best to answer accordingly.
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Brandi_S
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14,f, my ex boyfriend, who i still kind of have a thing for, basically told me that he still loves me on AIM. and i was really flattered and all, but he has a girlfriend that he's been going out with for 2 weeks. and a while ago he told me he had a major crush on her, and then one day he asked her out and turns out she liked him too. so now i feel really bad that he's kind of, well, trying to cheat on his girlfriend or whatever by telling me he loves me, well actually i dont know what hes doing by telling me this, and i wouldnt want him to do that to me with some other girl. i really dont know what to say to him and when he wrote me that on aim i just told him i had to go and signed off. havent talked to him since. i really like him but still i would hate him if he told another girl he loved her if he was with me. so i'm basically asking if i should like him or not -- i mean, i really do..i think about him more than anyone and he was always faithful to me when we were together and he was just the perfect boyfriend..but then i broke it off because i wasnt ready to have a steady realtionsip back then but now i am. help??? (link)
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You can like him, as long as you don't start anything while he is dating the other girl. If he tells you he loves you again, ask him what about his girlfriend. Make it clear to him, that you do like him and could handle a serious relationship with him now, but...it's just not the right time as long as he has a girlfriend.
Good luck,
Teacup
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