Well, I'm a second year college student. I have had my share of embarrassing moments, troubling times and I'm not the girl who got all the guys--so at least you'll know my advice is sincere and relatable, not perfect in an imaginary world. Any questions whatsoever are welcome, I'll try my best to answer accordingly.
Gender: Female Location: Miami Occupation: Student Member Since: August 4, 2006 Answers: 334 Last Update: February 14, 2008 Visitors: 19256
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For sometime Ive been getting mad over tiny things. Like, someone will say something a little insesnitive without thinking and I get upset for hours. Even when they apologise I can't just, like, let it go. Then I get angry over the slightest thing.
How can I control my temper and stop myself from getting blue over everything? Its started to cause BIG problems with my friends and family. (link)
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If not for the sake of your friends and your family, try to remain calm for your health. It's unhealthy to be mad all the time. All I can advise is, take things in stride. If someone says something that bothers you slightly, just try to let it go. I'm not saying to be a push over about it, but let it go. If you do feel the need to say something, do so politely (i.e. I disagree with you because...). Just don't explode on them. You can learn to control it.
Much Luck.
-teacup
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Thanks. I just need to know HOW to control my temper, which is really the problem. Thanks, though.
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