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Well, I'm a second year college student. I have had my share of embarrassing moments, troubling times and I'm not the girl who got all the guys--so at least you'll know my advice is sincere and relatable, not perfect in an imaginary world. Any questions whatsoever are welcome, I'll try my best to answer accordingly.
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For sometime Ive been getting mad over tiny things. Like, someone will say something a little insesnitive without thinking and I get upset for hours. Even when they apologise I can't just, like, let it go. Then I get angry over the slightest thing.

How can I control my temper and stop myself from getting blue over everything? Its started to cause BIG problems with my friends and family. (link)
If not for the sake of your friends and your family, try to remain calm for your health. It's unhealthy to be mad all the time. All I can advise is, take things in stride. If someone says something that bothers you slightly, just try to let it go. I'm not saying to be a push over about it, but let it go. If you do feel the need to say something, do so politely (i.e. I disagree with you because...). Just don't explode on them. You can learn to control it.

Much Luck.
-teacup


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Thanks. I just need to know HOW to control my temper, which is really the problem. Thanks, though.




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