Well, I'm a second year college student. I have had my share of embarrassing moments, troubling times and I'm not the girl who got all the guys--so at least you'll know my advice is sincere and relatable, not perfect in an imaginary world. Any questions whatsoever are welcome, I'll try my best to answer accordingly.
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Brandi_S
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To my family, what I know is either never taken seriously, or they just dont listen to me, then realize im correct and dont give me any credit, or change the subject when i say "thats exactly what i just said" or something like that. to SOME of my friends, they use me for multiple things, and boss me around. its like to my family I have a say nobody everyone overlooks, and to some of my friends I dont even have a say. please help me (link)
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If you are the baby of your family, it may be the reason why your ideas are being overlooked and not taken seriously. Tell your family that you are not a baby and that sometimes you too have good ideas, and that you can be of some help whether they want to believe it or not.
Do not let your friends boss you around. I have had friends who were extremely bossy...and I have told them that they have no right to boss me around, my own mother who can boss me around doesn't do it, so I don't see why you should. Just let your friends know, that you're not a pushover and by bossing you around, they are disrespecting you and they should treat you with the same respect you treat them.
I hope you are taken more seriously.
-Teacup
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wow ur good. i am the youngest one in my house, and the youngest one out of my friends. thanks!!
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