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Shannon
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well i feel REALLY self concious. i feel like i want to have surgeory done. Not implants, but a breast reduction. I am a "36 c" and i feel reaaaaally weird about my breasts. They dont really sag, but are halfway there, when i take off my bra they r really low, and then are so big, they also are on my sides. even when i wear a bra. I waited a little longer to wear a bra, i remember i had about a small "b" when i started to wear a bra cause mom said i didnt need one yet. well now i am probly *f-ed* up...i am soooooooo self concious, because of this i can't wear tank tops with out a bra, i cant wear one peice swim suits or even a strapless/strapped dress with out wearing a bra. and if i do wear a bra, the part at the back goes HIGH up and then some inches lower in the front are my breasts. i even had a bra strap break, but i think that was just weakly done. how come those girls on all thos commercials have great breasts? like i saw on a commercial for girls gone wild i saw the sides of their breasts, and how they stayed up so perfectly without a bra? i am only 13 and i have large breasts, this limits me to clothes, and brings worlds of self conciousness to me. my friend's maid says "i have a gift" but to me it is not such a gift when i have a bra on. do you think when i get older ill suddenyl get more support? or is there anything i can do? i am not overweight but i have a risk, very veery small one. i can fit into clothes i had three years ago even better so..please HEEEEEELP me! my mom tells me...oh your good..but she is my mom.. i KNOW how i look when i dont have a bra on. please i feel like i wanna get surgeory done and get a "b" but the cost is evil and then it STILL wont help the sagginess so... my god!....what can i do? this is the thing on my body i hate most.
There really is nothing you can do. Read this, it'll help you understand - http://www.ayurvediccure.com/breast_sagging_shapes.htm Most of the reason they're sagging is because of age & gravity. Just wear bras all the time, get comfortable ones so you'll want to wear them, and that should help the self consciousness.
(Rating: 5) Oh thank you so much! i found out that i was TOO self concious i have only a little problem. nothing too huge. thanks so much