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Hey everyone! My name's Amber, I'm 18 years old, and I love giving advice. Feel free to ask anything, and I will try to help you the best that I can!

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I have ben hurt many times by guys. Too many times! I always seem to fall for the wrong type, and I really mean the WRONG type! They all seem great at first but then the truth comes out. My ex-boyfriends have either been phycos, nymphos, mythomaniacs, cheaters or just plain assholes!! I have lost count on how many night I have fallen asleep crying! I thought I had given up on boyfriends and then my present boyfriend came along and seems really nice and all. Sure, he cheated on me once in the begining of out relationship but that's normal for me now, I guess that's just a thing that guys do so I have him a second chance.
So now we are together and I can't seem to be happy when I'm with him!! I'm just waiting for when he is going to hurt me and how he's going to do it!

When ever I try to picture our relationship in the furutre I see me crying over him because he hurt me really bad somehow....

I have seriously no romance in me anymore! My previous boyfriends have crushed that! They have made me into a depressing person. I used to me known as the "really happy and fun girl" but that was a looooong time ago!

I try, I really try to be happy with my present boyfriend, he is nice and all but I can't seem to get there. What is wrong with me?!?!
They have crushed my spitit, my soul and a few times my will to live :'(

please help!!

You can definately find someone better, that treats you good and that you are happy with. No one should be cheated on and if he cheated on you in the beginning of the relationship, then it's better to get out now. But just remember, not all guys are like that. You do deserve someone that makes you happy. Just take your time and find someone who you are truely happy with and that you can trust.

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(Rating: 4) Finding a nice guy that I can trust is like Mission Impossible for me =/
I just attract assholes, that's my curse and I have to live with that...
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