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the other week my boyfriend went all quiet for the day. i didnt think anything of it. then a couple of days later he told me that he was quiet because he was wondering if i was the right one for him. but then he said that he knows now that i am.
but today he went quiet again. i asked him what was up and he said 'nothing im just thinking.'
and so i said 'im scared now'... and he goes 'so am i'...
so obviously its scared the living day lights out of me. i love him 2 pieces and dont want to loose him.
i said to him ' i love you' and he usually says back. ' i love you too' but this time he said. ' i know you do'.....
just before he left he said 'dont worry.' cus he cud tell i wasnt right. and i said 'really' and he said yes. a few minuites later i told him that i was still well paranoid. and he said you should be.... but in a niceish way not as if he was trying 2 frighten me...
he still kept kissing me and hugging me and still said that he is coming over tomorrow. but i still feel really paranoid.
please say that is all it is i really dont want to loose him. he is the first person i have ever loved and i cant loose him. it would kill me.
please any help would be brilliant.
thank you. (link)
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depending on how long you've been going out, it might just be him going through a phase. guys ussually get restless after they've been in a relationship and start wondering if what there doing is right. the way he acts should tell you if its just a phase that will pass or something is seriously wrong.
if he brings up another girl a lot, then u shud definetly be worried and ask questions until you figure what his relationship with her is. he could be doing that because he's torn between two girls and in that case you need to take a break from each other.
he could just be recapping your relationship in his mind. if hes like half smiling while he thinks then maybe hes just thinking about your relationship in general and where its going. this is not a bad thing.
he could just be going through a phase because maybe hes never loved someone as much as you and it scares him. in that case, just give him time to adjust.
if he continues acting this way and doenst directly tell you whats bugging him then maybe bring up a couple of these kind of scenerios and see how he reacts to each one.
hope i helped and good luck
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well it wasnt just a phase we broke up yesterday. he didnt think we clicked. but we r staying mates. thank you so much for ur advise but ive noe got 2 keep cool and not let him see how much this pain hurts. i know that i wont go away for a long time but i have got 2 be stong.
thank you
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