about

hey. i'm 14 and is a girl of many interests and doesn't limit myself to what i can hold. i'm scared of a lot of things, but my life long goal is to conquer them. i love to help people's love lives, especially the ones that remind me of the ones i've had and have right now. i don't like having a lot of time in my hands because it makes me think of things i don't wanna think about. like past relationships, my current life, etc. but i guess it's okay to do that sometimes. as for the moment, i'm pretty much in love with my guy best friend. i asked him out. he said no. we're still good friends. he said that our friendship is more important and will last longer than a relationship. yea i agree. but, you know that feeling of emptiness, and you feel like only one person can fill it? well, that's how i'm feeling right now. i feel empty without him in my life as more than a friend. anyways. i'm here for anything, and i'll try my best to give you advice and such. my AIM is : WANNA BE iiN LUV. feel free to IM me if you need help. =)

advice

ok so theres this guy that i really like. i mean i really LIKE him. but im afraid to talk to him. with all my toehr crushes i was perfectly fine liek i would be myself. liek if i was hyper i would go crazy right in front of htem. but with him.. im just very i have to make sure that im perfect. and that makes me so nervous. does this mean that like i love him?? orr?? well nto love him but i mean that i like him more than the others?? i dont know.. and how can i make myself talk to him??? so yeah theres two questions..lol

you really do like him.
just relax around him.
maybe eventually, he'll start liking you.
but he should like the REAL you,
not the perfect, fantasy life you're acting like.
a lot of girls have done that.
i know i have ;;
impressing a guy to make him like you.
but if you don't know him too well,
how would you know if you really do like him?
try talking to him.
you know, say something like,
"hey. you're really cool, and i was wondering if we can hang sometime and get to know each other."
just have courage to talk to him.
you'll never know unless you talk to him.
and it won't hurt to try.

hope i helped.
if you need anything,
just message me.

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