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i invited my friend to come down to the beach with me. everytime i invite her down, she always asks if this other girl is going to. why would she ask that if i never mentioned that other girl gong? that makes me think that she doesn't want to go down with just ME, and sometimes i can't invite 2 people. anyone know why she might be saying this?

Hey there.. About your question well.. There are possible problems. 1. She may feel uncomfortable with being alone with you. Sometimes it takes girls awhile before they feel completly comfortable around a guy before they can feel confident to hang out with you alone. She might even feel uncomfortable for some other reason besides you, like maybe he being in a bathing suit around people, just for being the only girl there or maybe she doesnt like the attention. So dont be offended. Another reason could just be the other girl. She may or may not get along with her or maybe the other girl infulences her maybe by wich swimsuit to where or just the topics you guys may talk about. The other girl may like you or your friend may like you more than you think, and maybe she realizes it or something. Im sorry us girls have to be complicated. I think the best way to actually find out the right reason is only by asking. But be careful about how you ask. But i hope i helped.

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