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Location: D-Town
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Age: 14
AIM: x3ashleyjean
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I am a 14 year old girl but im 15 in 3 months and i know its illegal to have sex in uk before 16 but i really love my boyfriend and i'll be honest caue i want real advice i've been going out with him over a week and i already feel he loves me and i love him and i think i feel ready i mean he's given me oral sex if that can be correct but i've not done anything to him and i think he's the right one and the one i want to loose my virginity too and i want to know if theres a way of checking to see if ur ready by tasks or talks or something . one magazine said to see if ur ready to have sex see if you can walk up to your local chemist and buy condoms out of it from a lady who knows you live near by is this a good way of telling if im ready please email me bak or reply soon cause tomorrow or the next day is ment to be kinda big with him and me
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There is NO way you are ready to have sex. Going out for over like 8 months is more reasonable. You are no where near that. He's probabaly like one of your first boyfriends and you feel a need to automatically trust and love him, and feel like he does too. It happens alot with young relationships, but the odds are, your not in love. Eventually you could be. And I know, I HATE when people tell me I'm not or haven't been in love. It pisses me off so much. But seriosly, you barely know what this stuff is all about, it's so much more than just having sex. You need to be emotionally ready, and at 14 no one is. You need to give yourself time to know what love is, and that could take years. I'm saying all this as a person who is just deciding to have sex after about 9 months. It's a huge huge huge step and cannot be taken lightly. You need to reevaluate your priorities and understand that you are no where near sex, or love with your boyfriend of the week. If you want to talk more about it you can message me or instant message me at x3ashleyjean because I really don't want you to do something you'll regret 100%.
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