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Hey you guys. My name is Christina. I give pretty good advice. I give it to my friends all the time and it usually works//helps them out. Yes, I am preppy. I LOVE stores like Abercrombie and Fitch, Hollister, American Eagle and more, but those are my top 3 favorite stores. =D I love playing sports too, I'm very athletic. I love going online, talking to friends, helping people, hanging out with my friends,*&& hugging! I love looking for hot guys =] (I already love you if you give me a big hug! =D ) And more stuff. So ask away!

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so about two months ago i found out that my best friend basically was talking about me behind my back, so i told her off and we both got really pissed and just stopped talking. last week she apologized and it seemed like she meant it so i told her it was ok. so the other day she was at my house and she was on advicenators.com, and i guess she forgot to log out because today i came onto this site and clicked on "your questions" and saw that they werent mine so i was confused and i clicked on one. in it she basically bashed our whole group of six friends, she said only herself and my two other friends were pretty and she said one of them was only pretty "sometimes". then she continued to talk about another friend (who even though she used a different name, i could tell was me because she talked about the same stuff that she was using to talk about me behind my back) and how she thought that i COULD be pretty but im ugly right now and how can she help me. but she made it sound like im some person who doesnt know how to take care of myself, like i have no idea how to use a razor and i never wash my face so its all greasy, which is NOT true. i started shaving even before she did! and im not sure how i should react cause in one way its flattering that she cares about me enough to want to help me with my "problems", but in another way im insulted because she said that "no guys pay attention to her" which isnt true, a bunch of guys have specifically said that they thought im hot. and she said that i always wear the same clothes and that even when its really hot out ill wear jeans and a sweatshirt, but its really mean of her to assume that because she doesnt understand that im really self conscious cause shes like the skinniest person alive shes a size 00 and im a size 5, and she doesnt know that so she talks about how her friend who is a size 3 is fat to me. and when i first the question she wrote i was so mad at her, she was making all these rude accusations when she doesnt even know the truth. it makes me not wanna be friends with her anymore knowing that she thinks of me as like a little girl who doesnt know how to take care of herself and needs "help". but i cant confront her about it cause then she'll know i was snooping on her account, even though it was an accident. what do u think i should do to prove her wrong about all that? sorry this was so long. thanks!!!

Hey!
Wow, I am so, so sorry for everything that had happened.
Personally, in my opinion, I think that she's just really, really jealous of you.
Well, I would ask her about the site and ask if she had a username and if so, what it was and if she tells you say "Hey, I go on advicenators too, and I ask questions, so I thought that they were my answers, because I didn't know that you went on it,I was just really hurt about some of the stuff you said and I was hoping that we could talk about it."
You are not fat! A size 5 is perfect! And I, in my opinion, this a size 00 is WAY too skinny, it might be going through depression, or an eating disorder but I'm not 100% shure, only about half.
Well, if you don't want to use that one idea, considering you said you couldn't confront her, I'd start talking about stuff and use the stuff she used in her questions to maybe describe stuff and if she gets a little jittery then you should know what's up.


I'm really sorry if I didn't answer your question fully! If you need more help inbox me *&& I will answer the questions. Nothings ever to long!

Well Good lucky and I hope everything goes well!
♥Christina

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