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I'm dealing with a lot of self doubt and lack of direction, so I guess Freud would say I'm using this site to deal with these feelings.
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I'm 19 years old and I started dating a 25 year old man. When we had sex for the first time, he suddenly said he had to go to pee. When he came back he didn't feel like having sex anymore.
Is it really possible that a man can feel an urge to urinate while making love? I'm afraid it was just an exuse because something was not ok. Please help me.
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Well, I can't say I have any expertise in this category, but I'll try my best.
First, it seems entirely possible that your boyfriend could indeed lose his sex drive to a full bladder. Men are naturally set to "urinate mode", obviously; stimulation causes the penis to shift into "ejaculate" mode. I'm speaking from a very basic medical understanding here, but from what I've read that's about how it works.
So, if your boyfriend happened to have a full bladder at the time, he would have gone back to "urinate" mode when he went to the john.
However - I think it's a safe bet that most sane men would happily plan ahead and take care of such things beforehand. Maybe he was going to prematurely ejaculate and wanted to save face, maybe he didn't feel well, who knows?
Regardless, I think you should give this guy the benefit of the doubt for now; assume he had a good, personal reason for his actions. But if he pulls something like that again, I'd say you have the right to find out why.
Good luck-
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thanks, you've been so nice...
I hope I won't become dependent on your advice and write you for evry single folly:)
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