about

I'm a qualified colour therapist and I'm doing a course in psychotherapy and councelling. i have the letters SNHS after my name which means i have a diploma from The School of Natual Health Sciences.
I have life experience in mental health, agoraphobia,bullying,parents divorce.


advice

My boyfriend is Constantly working so I never get to see him the last time i saw him was Thursday and I miss him so much im crying! yeah i know well he cant call me either because hes either sleeping or working so I hardly ever get to see or talk to him. i only see him on his days off (which arnt that many) and he cant ask to take days off (its complacated(sp?) so dont ask) I'm sorry if this is a hard question to answer but what can I do? I want to see him SO BAD!! he lives in a diff. city than I do (about an hour away) and I dont know where he works at either so I cant see him or call him because he doesnt have a cell phone and no work phone. I miss him so much what can I do? and im always thinking about him and it makes me cry because i miss him so much. and i have a job too but i only work a few days a week and for only about 8 hours and he works everyday all day. and another thing is dont say something like "go hang out with your friends or family" because my family is out somewhere and my friends are out with THEIR boyfriends so theres no where i can go to get him off my mind im stuck at home with nothing to do, noone to call, and all i have left to do is think about him and its making me depressed. and DO NOT say break up with him because I LOVE HIM. is there anything i could do? anything that would make me happier? thanks i will rate and leave really good comments!
if it helps any im 14 and hes 15

if he's only 15 then surely he cant be in full time work, thats illigal for a start and doesnt he have school too?
i know you love him, but it doesnt seem like he feels the same way because he cant just work and sleep. what about going out with his friends or when he's at school, or relaxing watching tv?
Last year when my boyfriend was at uni (2 and a half hours away from me) and on teaching placement then going to work an hour after school, he still found time to call me because he loves me and cared about me.
He came to see me once a week and although it's hard because we missd eachother so much it worked and we have stayed together.(although we live with eachother now).
It just doesnt seem like your boyfriend feels the same way you do, otherwise he would make the effort to call you everyday and come and see you as often as he could.
As for helping yourself to be happier, you need distractions. tv, dvd's, computer, going shopping, going for a walk, read books/magazines and be with your family when they are in or see if they can take you out somewhere, if your friends are at a loose end and not with their boyfriends be with them, or arrange a girly day,
Take up a hobbie such as card making, jewellry making, painting, photography ect.

Next time you speak to him ask him if you can talk every day or every few days, even if it's not for very long, you can ring his home when he's in or he could ring you, it's not much to make a phonecall to your boyfriend/girlfriend if you love them.

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(Rating: 4) well he works for his parents and they make him work all day every day their strict. but thanks for the advice. great tips on how to keep him off my mind
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