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Ok,I'm 18/F and the other day I caught my brother he's 16 dressed in my clothes,I mean everything bra,panties,mini-skirt the works when he saw me he started crying,,,,too make a long story short he told me he has been wearing my clothes for a while and that he wants to be a girl. He said that he's sick of pretending and asked if I would help him shop and teach him about makeup,I love my brother an told him I would but I find this very weird. What should I do ?????

First of all your brother may be either having an identity crisis-i wouldn't necessarily say that he is homosexual though. Many times, young teens who aren't given enough attention at home tend to come out with odd behavior and characteristics because they need attention. If attention seeking isn't the case...try getting to know his friends better (they may have a strong influence on him or maybe they can help you out with the situation since they are his close friends). My best advice is just support him. If you desert him now, he'll feel alone and vulnerable. Tell him that you care and want to help him...its the only way you can make sure that he values your trust...and when you're ready...try dissuading him from dressing in girl's clothes...its just gonna take time...best of luck..if you need anymore specific advice...write me..good luck

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(Rating: 5) Thanks for the advice,but buy support him do ya mean help him with clothes and makep????
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