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MOREPICTURESMy names Juliet
and i'm nothing short of bad luck.
I've been through everything. Literally.
I can help you with anything. No matter how, tragic, How crazy, How simple.
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ANYTHING. I've been through it all.
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My 17 year old daughter quit school, does not have a job--and does NOTHING around the house. She
does have money in savings which she has been blowing like crazy, but that's almost gone now. She lied to me about last night, said she stayed at a friends to babysit younger siblings, and I found out differently. The friends Mom doesn't even care that our daughters weren't there, so she is not much help. I don't know where my daughter is right now. When she comes home, I am going to tell her she cannot stay anywhere from now on. (she did this one other time and was grounded) I am prepared for a big fight from her, and she will probably leave without my permission. I am going to tell her that I will report her as a runaway.
However, then I have no clue what will happen next (if I get the law involved)
She might turn the story on me and say she is abused. (Which of course she is not) but she plays the role of the victim well, and threatened to call CPS another time when I put my foot down.
Her BF is 19 and lives in a bordering state, but is it against the law if he takes her across state lines? She is (17) and other people seem to think that would not be against the law because she is over 16.
So my questions are.
Is a relationship between a 17 yr old and 19 yr old legal?
What happens when a 17 yr old is reported as a run away?
Does CPS automatically believe a teenager who plays the victim?
You may not want my help, seeing as well, I am also a teenager.
As for your daughter dating a 19yr old, I'm not sure that this is legal, If they are sexually active, it is not.
Reporting a 17 yr old as a runaway will do nothing. My sister left the hosue at 17 and my mother too, got the police and they stated that Since she is 17 she can leave whether she's has permission or not.
Your daughter would need to prove that you abuse her for it to be taken seriously.
(Rating: 4) Hearing from other teens is good. Keep up the good work.