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14/f
well, theres this girl and shes suposeed to be my "bestfriend." but shes everything but that. she lies to me all the time, she strives to be the center of attention, she tries to get in the way of me and my boyfriend. Also she embaresses me infront of all my friends/boyfriend and always leaves me out of plans. But shes always like omg i love you!! bestfriendsforever! but its all bs. but if i try to confront her with it, she turned all my friends againest me for two weeks! i dont know what to do anymore. i dont have any other friends besides that group of friends, and i cant take it. please help me!

14/f,

The best thing you can do is except who she is and understand that you can't change her. You don't have to be her best friend and you don't have to trust her either. In fact, it seems that you are fully aware of how she is...so use the wisdom of what you know about her and know your boundaries on how much you can trust her. I wouldn't waste my time trying to confront her, especially if you know she doesn't really care. Focus your attention on the friends that really are good to you and don't waste your efforts with those who don't respect you.

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(Rating: 5) thanks. great advice!
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