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Hi, My real name is Daniel. Im an expert on youth affairs (issues) and you can ask me questions on:

Love and Relationships
Sexuality
Dating
Puberty
And anything else to do with youth/teenagers
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Hey!
ok u seem to kno a lot about "love lifes" but ok im just gonna make it short and easy.. i want to have sex w/ my boyfriend.. what can i do to make him make the first moves.. or should i? (link)
Hi, how keen is your boyfriend on having sex with you? If he want's to have sex with you, then it's O.K providing that you are both old enough and have talked about contreception. Maybe if you want to make the first move then you need to ask yourself:

a) Is this the time to be doing this?
b) Is this the place to be doing this?
c) His he giving you body language (letting you know that he's ready to take this step?)

If thats O.K then maybe slowly talk to him. Flirt with him slowly, and then move your head forward very slowly (still talking)and when your a few centremeters in front of him, give him a smooch on the lips for 10 seconds. If he moves his head away, hes telling you that theres something wrong. And I suggest you leave it and say something like "or sorry-was I going to quickly, whats wrong". Anyway lets get back to the kissing. If he start to kiss you then maybe slowly put your arms around him and kiss his kneck. Stand up and take his hand and lead him to the bedroom. Once your in the room with him, push him on the bed (slowly) and undress him. Then have sex about 25 secs later.

Remember these thing when doing these steps:

1. Timeing
2. Slowly
3. Body language and communication

This is only what I think. Just see how things go and don't get your hopes up to high. You might get dissapointed if you do.
Let me know how it works out. Get back to me if you like. Daniel.


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Hey.. ur advice was really good! thnx a whole bunch! but if ya have yahoo u can add me cus itll b alot easier that way.. francesca_vrtacnik21@yahoo.com




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