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Hey im a girl. Im 15 years old. I really like this guy who is a year older then me. We do not go to the same school. So we met on myspace but we live close to each other and next year im going to be going to the same school he is. We met and talked and we also talked alot on aim he was giving me all hints he likes me: calling me his favorite and telling me how amazing i am. Then couple days after we hang out on the weekend it was me him two of my girlfriends and his friend. He was flirting with me and i was flirting with him and i was pretty much positive he liked me. Then we went over to his friends house and everyone else saw we liked each other. They asked me if i liked him and i said yea then they asked him if he liked me and he said he didnt know but i never knew that so i thought he did so i kept on acting like nothing was wrong. Me and him ended up making out for hours. Next morning he was a little akward around me but i knew for a fact he enjoyed making out with me he even told me that. That day i texted him asking him if he liked me as a friend or more because i needed to know. He texted back saying he likes me as a friend. I was really bumbed. Btw my other girlfrined(kelsey) hooked up with the guy i like best friend after an hour of knoning him and did more then make out with him. But going back i was really mad at austin for making out with me and telling me he likes me as a friend. Next couple days i didnt talk to him so he talked to me like nothing was wrong and he stil thinks im the shit and he likes me(he never told but hinted). The very next day i find out he likes my friend(kelsey) who hooked up with his best friend. I was in SHOCK! shes not his type at all! She not very bright or pretty not sound mean or anything but guys never really go for her specially from me to her and so i was really confused. I was soo pissed off also he was doing and tellin the same things he was doing to me. I got over it but then after a week the guy i liked started texting me at night saying he misses me and we need to start over i went and asked my friend why is he liking me all of the sudden didnt he like kelsey a week ago and she just said he was drunk when he texted me. So i kind of just forgot about it but that weekend i saw him and he told me that he doesnt like kelsey anymore so i was like alright. but he was flirting with my other girlfriend and not me. Then he got drunk and everything changed he totally liked me we went to his car and he told me all this stuff that he was afraid he would never get me and thats why he went for kelsey and that he really really likes me and even loves me but i was drunk too(tipsy)So we made out and stuff. Next day he told me he didnt rember anything when i know for a fact he was not that bad to not remmeber anything. So please someone help me? is he PLAYING me? whats going on. Some people say hes way to innocent and shy and had no confidence so he doesnt try to get wiht me because hes afraid to get hurt and turned down.But i really like and i wouldnt do that to him and i think? he knows that. PLease tell me what to do!!!???!?!

OK first of all, if he is shy and scared of you turning him down, I doubt he would make out with you when you guys first hung out over the weekend.

In my opinion, I think he might be playing a game with your head and he just used 'way to innocent and shy and had no confidence so he doesnt try to get wiht me because hes afraid to get hurt and turned down' THAT as an excuse for flirting w/ your friends. He sounds like a guy who's afraid of commitment and he wants to have his options.

Make sure your friends have your back on this. Inform them what you feel about him and if he pulls another move on them, let you know.

Also, the drunk thing might not be the way to go. If he loves you when he's drunk, that's not exactly a compliment. He might have mixed feelings when he's drunk, and you don't sound like the kind of girl who would use him for making out only. Try to stay one step ahead of him though, and make sure you and him know what's going on the next time you have some alcohol.

I think the best way to go is to be friends. If he ever gets out of this 'playing stage' go for it. It's okay to like him a little; but if I were you, I wouldn't be too sure to fall head-over-heels in love with a guy like that.

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(Rating: 4) well yea i think that makes alot of sense that hes playing a game with me but the whole shy innocent thing he didnt tell me this prehaps he claims hes not shy or innocent but everyone else who have known him for while know that he is.Ive only known him for like 3 months. Yea i try to just be friends because he says he likes me as a friend so i stay friends i would never make a first move on him or anything but he always does every weekend that were drunk or hes drunk. And because i like him so much i seem to just let it happen. I used to get very mad and upset because im stupid enough to fall for that but now i like dont even care. Me and him had the same thing happend last night both drunk making out holding hands acting like were together but in the morning its all gone. Also the thing is you said its not a compliment that he lieks me when hes drunk but i know he finds me attractive like he always tells me how hott cute amazing i am but if u ask him if he likes me because usually you tell those things to a girl u like he will say i like you as a friend and get liek all scared about it when you ask.
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