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ok...theres this guy..ofcourse..thats how theses things always start out. but that ok. well any ways, we have known each other for 10 years ok and we have just been friends. well about a month ago we went to the movies and we kissed..AWESOME! ,but unfortionately good things never last..because a week later he started being really mean to me and not talking to me. Well i didnt talk to him for about 3 weeks and then on may 18...(my birthday) i called him after me , my friend, and my cousin left my other cousins graduation (we left early) i calle dhim to ask him once again if the kiss ment anything to hin and if he like someone else...hey we're friends we talk about this stuff. He got me really upset and i started to cry so i hung up. My cousins girlfriend called him and he sais that he didnt like me he didnt mean anything by it and we weren't friends...This got me sooo upset that i cried for like 30 minutes until everybody got home then i had to hold it back but i couldnt. I am still upset. I cant think about anything lse ...except him and the past 10 years. now i'm so heart broken that i dont even know witch way i should go...go down a new path...or stay where i am and live life never fully loving anyone ever again. My friends and family tell me that it was just a crush and i'll get over it and i say well if i will get over it how come i still feel like he just broke my heart. They never kenw and never will know exactly how much i love him.He will never know either and thats what hurts the most.
hey. sorry to hear about this. it sucks. theres not much to do, except take your mind off of that loser. if he doesnt want you in his life, why do you want his so bad? dont let him do this to you. do a sport, or hang out with friends. this guy sounds like a loser, and you could do so much better. dont put up with him. i'm not so sure you were or are in love with this guy. i know this makes you sad and upset, but theres not much you can do. you just have to take your mind off of him, and move onto someone worth your time.
hope this helped. =]
(Rating: 5) thanks. as i said know one knows how much i love him...i love him more than really anything. but you did help thank you