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I'm 22 years old, just graduated from college, moved, and started a new job.

I'm dealing with a lot of self doubt and lack of direction, so I guess Freud would say I'm using this site to deal with these feelings.

I hope to use my interests in philosophy, psychology, and economics to give a holistic advice column and help someone out.
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Is there a move you can teach me in able to make a guy bring out his true feelings for a girl without looking too forward? The guy is too uptight and too confused to know what he wants because he has too much going on in his life right now. We were too comfortable with each other before as bestbuds but apparently he overstepped the boundaries and everything went haywire from that point. He's avoiding me now because its too awkward for both of us, but I know there's definitely some heavy feelings that's kept in there. . . (link)
He might be afraid of commitment if he is a busy guy, as you indicated.

If you want him to resolve his feelings, try to help him see the issue as a matter he can choose. Don't let him hide from his feelings until opportunity passes him by - tell him you want to know what he's thinking about, and be honest.

You can lead him to the curtain, but he has to look inside. Good luck -


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