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I've liked this guy who's in my grade for a few months now, and it doesn't feel like it's going to go away anytime soon. I feel like he would never like me back because he's pretty hot and I'm...not. I feel like I act like a bitch around him, but my friends tell me I don't. He sorta acts like he likes me, but I'm not sure. He lives kinda far away, so even if he does, what do I do? Here are the reasons why he may like me:

-He stares at me. He looks away when I look at him.
-He says really random things to me out of nowhere that have nothing to do with anything. I don't know if he does that to other girls or not.
-He seems to touch me randomly. He'll poke me, or one time he was complimenting my voice and he slapped me on the back.

I don't know if I'm imagining these things, or if he's just trying to be friendly. Help!

It seems like he's being a normal flirt. Although, the staring thing could be a key factor. You know personally if you act like a bitch to him or not. Sometimes girls flirt by playing hard to get, and we don't even realize it. We can be "viscious" and think that it makes guys like us more. But the truth is, they don't like it at all. The kind of girl most guys are attracted to is a playful, fun flirty girl who is nothing but herself. Open up to this guy! Don't hold back. Pass him a note in class, invite him over for a "study date," or find out his screen name. The best way to get a guy to like you is to get to know him and open up to him. If he likes you, you'll get the vibe. If he doesn't, youll get that vibe, too. Don't worry, if he's not right for you then there will be plenty of other guys. And don't be so down on yourself! Everyone's beautiful in their own way.

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(Rating: 5) Your advice was definitely good, although I could've lived without the "Everyone's beautiful in their own way", because I so don't believe that.
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