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13/f
1.hey! I'm having a surprized birthday party for my friend(lets call him bob-13/m). our birthday's are on the same day so i kinda feel left out but i REALLY want to do this for him does anyone know how to get over my jealousy?

2.what games should we play or what should we do?

3. My friend(lets call her ann) doesnt like my other friend Lynn. I want to invite both but i dont want drama! Ann is one of those ppl who freak out on ppl so im kinda scared to NOT invite her. and Lynn is a REALLY nice person but she has a knack for braging and thats why alot of people dont like her. but i do. does anyone know what i can do about this problem?

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Okay. Here's my advice.

1. Try not to be jealous, even though it's hard. Get involved with planning the party and you won't have time to notice your jealousy. Also, your doing something nice for someone, so that should make you feel good. So don't feel jealous, just be happy your going to make someone else's day special.

2. You can put on music and of course have food. You can play games like truth or dare and spin the bottle, or just have a very "chill" party and watch movies and sit around and talk. If you want it to be more exciting, you can have a cake fight (it's more fun if its on the spur of the moment) or you can have some sort of scavenger hunt, where you have to go to peoples houses and get items.

3. As for these girls, if they are both friends with the birthday boy, invite them both. It's his day, not theirs, and they're going to need to learn to get along sooner or later. Also if you really think it's going to be a problem, make sure they know each other is going, and warn them if anything is started up, they'll both get kicked out.

Hope this helps and have fun with the party. Happy birthday to you as well.
-cindy

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