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cindy

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ok, well let me start off by saying that i chased away so many boys who wanna start something w/ me it's not even funny. 14/f

I don't wanna get a big head, but yeah, i'm pretty good looking, and in school... I always have different guys coming up to me and trying to start a conversation. They are really nice and everything.. and really cute, but the thing is I freeze up. Like for me, I love partying and everything and ya streaking, drinking, all the fun stuff. But I don't belive in relationships at such a young age. So when a guy trys to startsomehting with me, and wants to get a friendship going i freeze up and like NO.. NO RELATIONSHIPS. liek even if the guy isn't tryign to get in a relationship and liek just trying to be friends... i don't want him to fall for me and tehn i have to hurt him (happened in the past thousands of times). I dont' know what to do, and even begin.. please I need your advice! Thank - you :(

Okay. I understand your NO RELATIONSHIP policy and I strongly agree with it. It's not that 14 is to young to date, its just the fact that nothing serious is going to come from it. However, just because guys that were your friends have fallen for you in the past, doen't mean every single guy thinks that way. Your stopping yourself from having friends. My best advice is for you to stop pushing them away. Just be friends. And if they end up falling for you, it's not your fault. It's theirs. Don't feel bad about the broken hearts either. You can't help it, so don't make it your problem. Hope this helps.
-cindy

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(Rating: 5) thankyou :)
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