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k 14/f hereee

okayyy.. so theres this guy, justin i met at the beginning over the school year, and he had a thing for eachother ever since.. like basically we're in love.. we've been talking for like 9 months.. and i pretty convinced i love him, and i can tell he loves me also.

and well we wanna date and stuff but our school=drama.. i mean when me and justin started talking, so much crap went around. it was crazy.. and if youre wondering why, im 14 and hes 17. but in my case i dont care bout age. but everyone bascially knows we're in love. so everything is cool with people at school.


but my mom, doesnt like him.. although shes never met him, she just thinks he wants sex, but hey i havent slept with him and hes still here, after 9 months. and i told him that i wasnt gonna have sex with him, cuz basically i think im too young, and he totally understands.
But anyway, i had to beg my mom for me to even talk to him.. and she just doesnt understand.

and well me andhim really want to date.
any advice?

thanks, i rate all 5's
but if you say im too young to be in love;
no rating.

My mom can be the same way sometimes. You need to earn her trust if you ever want to see this guy again. Maybe you can set up a time where she can meet him (don't make it a date) and don't make it last for just 5 minutes. If he's a respectable person, he'll make time for your mom and understand her situation. To make it less awkward, brag for him like tell her about any awards, sports, or honorable things he's accomplished.

Personally, I think you can fall in love anytime. Tell her that you're not going to MARRY the guy, but you really want to see how things work out for now. If she thinks all he wants is sex, tell her that you will address her if you ever get the offer and give her your whole side on how you yourself think you're too young. Do it in a calm fashion; arguing will get you no where.

Have fun =)

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(Rating: 5) thanksss !!! your advice definitly got me thinkin, and i`ll definitly try the meetingg part ;) THANKS!
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