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HeY im Kelsey&& im 15, i love to give advice so dont b shy, im here to give you answers. Im not here to judge you, it doesnt matter what gender,race,or orientaion, etc. Im here to answer your questions and to help however i can. I don't mind doin a little research or whatever, im here for you.

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ok well here i go.
i have had a really good relationship with this guy. we will call him b. well he was the best boyfriend a girl could ever ask for but then i broke up with him because he cheated on me and i had cheated on him. and i have had a crush on this one guy. we can call him j. well j and i have flirted and i wanted him to ask me out really bad but then b got to be best friends with j so now j seems wierd around me. b was so mad that i had picked j over him that he went into my locker and tore it apart LITIARLY! it was so upsetting i almost was going to cry. then to top it all off, b wont say a word to me other then to call me slut! and he means it and it really breaks my heart because he said that no matter what, we would be friends so its just confusing. what do i do?

please help!

Wow i know what you are talking about. B is probably just jealous and upset. Some guys dont get sad, they get mad. One boyfriend i had got so mad wheni broke up with him that my ex went to my boyfriends house and "hung out" with him and told him a bunch of lies and started rumors that follow me to this day. I am ok with my ex now, you need time, different guys take more or less time than others. Its ok, he will eventually get over it. You can try to talk to him but if it doesnt work than there is probably nothing you can do but go on with your life. It does sound like J likes you though so i would try to become closer with him, alone, which means atleast not when B is around. Give it a try. B just wants you to know that he is angry and is not having any trouble taking it out on you. Just try to stay clear of him and if you cant talk to him there is always Plan B. Which is to ignore him and just shake it off, if he calls you a slut then look at him, laugh, and roll your eyes, it will make him mad but he will eventually stop if he knows that you arent affected by his words anymore.

hope i helped
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(Rating: 5) thanks im gunna try that. ESPECIALLY when he calls me a slut im totally going to laugh and walk away! thanks!!! :)
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