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I'm Jaz. I'm 17. I love photography and writing. and I've gone through a lot with self-injury, depression, and guys. I hope I can help you ask much as possible. I will give the most honest answer.

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i was in love with a guy who was in love with me. we ended up going our separate ways, but it sucks because we both still have feelings for each other. heres the catch: he has a girlfriend. he tells me he "knows shes not the right one for him" but i am confused as to if i shuold let myself fall for him again or back off. ppleaseee help

I think you should back off a little bit. I went out with a guy for 6 months and we never did much except talk, when we broke up, probably about 6 months later I was on the phone talking to him (he had a girlfriend at the time) and he was saying how he's going to break up with his girlfriend and maybe go out with me. I was thrilled, but 3 days later, I found out he was going to stay with his girlfriend a little longer and that he didn't like me anymore.
It's hard when someone is with someone else. I really think you just let him go for a while, if he comes back then that's what will happen, but it's not worth getting hurt over if you fall for him again.
Maybe he will realize that you're the one he should be with if you back off a little. Just give it time.

Good luck!

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(Rating: 5) thanks so much! i definately will see if that solves anything.
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